Great-grandma finally snapped and killed husband after decades of abuse

Janet Dunn (in her mugshot and with her husband) was jailed for more than five years (Picture: PA/Alamy)

A pensioner smothered her controlling husband of more than years after he smiled at her when she confronted him about yet another financial problem.

Janet Dunn snapped and pressed a pillow against 81-year-old Anthony’s face in their bedroom, then fled their home in Ponteland, Northumberland, where she made a serious attempt to kill herself.

The ‘quiet and shy’ great-grandmother, 73, was jailed for five years and three months at Newcastle Crown Court after she admitted manslaughter on the grounds of diminished responsibility.

Psychiatrists agreed that, at the time, Dunn was in a depressive episode and anxious, causing her judgment to be substantially impaired.

Peter Glenser QC, prosecuting, said Mr Dunn was known to make ‘grand financial gestures’ which rarely came off and the couple would have to borrow from relatives.

In the period before he died, their money troubles were so bad they faced having their home of 36 years repossessed.

Janet Dunn held a pillow over her husband’s face after an argument about their finances (Picture: PA)

Judge Paul Sloan, sentencing, said on the morning of the killing, there was another confrontation about finances and the prospect of the couple having to borrow from one of their two daughters.

He said: ‘He simply smiled, telling you to go ahead.

‘You interpreted that smile as demonstrating a completely uncaring and unfeeling attitude.

‘After decades of compliance and submission, it was the smile that finally caused you to snap.

‘The anger and frustration you had repressed for years boiled over.’

The couple had three daughters and their middle child died last year aged 47, after which Mr Dunn’s health deteriorated.

He had become more dependent on his wife, worrying if she left him alone, the court heard.

Although not violent in their relationship, he had been verbally abusive and said she would be left ‘treading on eggshells’, particularly earlier in their marriage.

Mr Glenser said the husband was quick-tempered and liked to be in control of everything.

Janet Dunn and husband Anthony (Picture: Alamy Stock Photo)

Psychiatric experts agreed their relationship was one of ‘coercive control’, the barrister added.

The judge agreed, telling the grey-haired defendant: ‘As a result of his behaviour and conduct towards you, your confidence and self-esteem were eroded.’

After smothering her husband, Dunn drove to a nearby lake and tried to kill herself in her Mercedes but was seen, slumped and unconscious, by a dog-walker who raised the alarm, the court heard.

Their two surviving daughters provided victim statements but they were not read out in court.

John Elvidge QC, defending, said: ‘This is an extraordinary case.

‘The facts and the background that have been uncovered are extremely sad and distressing.’

He added: ‘In spite of it all, Mrs Dunn did love her husband.

‘She is desperately sorry for taking his life and for what she has done to their daughters.’

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